7 UNIQUE SOCIAL SKILLS
Greeting from me. We all have spent 2021 almost half. Hopefully, you are all are safe at your houses and making prayers to God for all the doctors. Everybody wants to be perfect but they make mistakes in their social life. Nobody can be perfect this is right but adopting some normal social skills can make him more different from another. You may know what I am going to talk about but are you following this? If you have worked on these 7 Unique social skill you must know how it works. Everything does different work in life. This all depends on you how these social skills work with you.
Here I am describing some of my favorite social skills I have worked on myself. It has a very positive impact on my personal life I didn’t know where I was making mistakes but now I don’t make silly little mistakes.
INTRODUCE YOURSELF -
Most people don’t know how to start a conversation with a person you don’t know. The easiest way of starting a conversation is to INTRODUCE YOURSELF first. This topic I got from my social life. I used to be a very frank buddy for all. Cause I was the only one who started the conversation. Between two people somebody have to start a conversation then why don’t you take this opportunity. You can notice when someone talks to the first nicely It feels a little difficult to forget about him/her. Why don’t you be that kind of personality? If someone make effort to handshake to you should be the one introduce first. Try this, you will different thing about the people.
DON’T PLAY WITH YOUR PHONE WHEN YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE-
This is the first thing I really want to tell you, If you are with your friends, girlfriend or in any conversation. Please keep your beautiful and expensive cellphone in your pocket. If you really think that your I-phone is going to impress a girl you are dating then you totally wrong here. Everyone wants attention if your spending time with someone, whether it is your girlfriend or best friend. If you don’t want to be rude to someone in a meeting then keep your phone silent. Most of the people, I used to do, checking my cellphone for no reason in the meeting. I didn’t know it can have a very bad impact on the person sitting in front of you. Your behavior can say a lot about you and showing a cellphone can mean rude to that person. If you need to do something on your phone just ask for an excuse or a minute, Adding this line can make easily a perfect impression.
DON’T PASS COMMENT
Passing comments and giving compliments are two different things. When you do whisper about someone to your friend it doesn’t make you a cool guy, It just makes a bad picture in people’s minds and hurts that guy. So if you are trying to be cool try another way. If you are admiring someone but you are whispering in your friend’s ear, you might not be wrong, But the way you are admiring can make a bad impression. If you really want to give compliments, do it openly, nobody will hurt and you too have a good impression. I think no one hates compliments. Do you? No, right. Nobody, Don’t pass comments give people what they love.
BE THE LAST WHO BREAK EYE CONTACT -
I got this point from my school time. The teacher used to ask the question to those who try to hide compare then who used to make proper eye contact. Eye contact also works differently according to the situation. Eye contact shows how confident you are about your knowledge. It also shows that you are now a shy person or we can say eye contact comes before smiling. Making and proper eye contact with the person also show that you are completely available there.
SMILE
I was watching an interview on youtube, Interviewer asked what is the thing that can make a human beautiful? The other guy smiled and didn’t say anything. He was confused and said a Smile is the only thing that can make a human beautiful. A single SMILE has a lot of miracles. It can convince a tough guy easily. If you are between the conversation don’t be the robot woo don’t have the impression. Be that beautiful human who understands everything. Just smile and see its magic.
INCLUDE EVERYONE -
When you are talking about something important with anyone, It may be your team or your friend. If someone interrupts you, don’t stare at him, Rather allow him to clear his doubts or improving your or speaking. Don’t finish your meeting without asking your junior or friend, if they have something better then you. You must include everyone in your conversation. when you will ask everyone they will feel included and will give you more productivity.
LISTEN MORE THAN YOU SPEAK -
Listening has been a proven or most important skill you must know. If you want to be included in a conversation then first you know the topic they are talking about. Start to listen there conversation and get the topic they are talking about. You can have valid questions when you will listen to things carefully. If they are talking about some sad news and you are clapping, that would be very unfair. You should listen carefully first and then speak. Communication between two people starts with listening. you must be an active listener.
Try these 7 Unique social skills in your life and tell us about what differences you have noticed in your regular life.
Originally published at https://www.wearstuffsworld.xyz on May 23, 2021.